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Sunday, December 19, 2004
  

Christmas

Somewhere there has to be the other half of me, the other half of me I've yet to meet. One special someone whose heart has a similar leaning and if she were right for me day and night for me would have meaning. The other half of me that unknown quanity that unseen destiny could make me complete. Is there a chart for the heart or a graph? Will we meet on the street with a laugh? Will we know one another, if I ever meet my other half? The other half of me...

This song sounds so perfect if I were single and brokenhearted. But I'm more of the latter than single. I'm not brokenhearted for matters you might be thinking of right now. Rather, I am brokenhearted because there are so many people I want to see, so many things I want to do, so many things I have to admit to different people, so many unfinished businesses, so many memories I can't let go of, so many of the manys in the world.

(Listening to the Sweet November soundtrack doesn't help at all.) I want to go back to the Philippines. I want to see my friends. My loved ones. The closest of them all. I want to see those who've been a BIG part of my life. Those I've shared beautiful memories with. Those who made me laugh. Those I will never forget. Isn't it true when people say that you don't value something so much until it disappears? I may never have the chance again to live in the Philippines, and if a vacation is all I can get, I'll take it.

It's funny how everytime I talk about taking a vacation, I always cannot find the words to aptly describe how badly I'm missing all the things I used to do. I was in church today... and the priest said something that really hit me. He said, "Especially this Christmas, if you're in suffering, or making so much sacrifice, just GIVE. Give, give and give and Christ will give it back to you a million-fold." I'm not really feeling Christmas. There are feelings I'm trying to hold back. There's this depression of not being able to go on a vacation that I want so badly to overcome. There's this happiness I'm longing to find. There's the fun I'm longing to have. Where have the good times gone? Does life gradually shape into a serious path where you have to study and work at the same time? It doesn't even seem like I'm half of the person I used to be. I used to be bubbly and have full of life and do whatever I want even when I'm tired as hell. I used to be able to train Karate four times a week even when I'm really exhausted from school. I used to be able to spend the weekend singing with my choir. I used to be able to party anytime I want and go home anytime I want and do all the things I want like play Counterstrike at 4 am. I used to be able to have conversations until 10 am the next day with various people and actually sleep on the phone and have them there at the other end when I wake up. I used to be able to lie down on my bed and ponder on my life while scribbling stuff on my planners and play my Norah Jones and laze around for an hour before I get up to do NOTHING. I used to be able to enjoy Christmas. Now, it seems empty.

I know that living here has brought me a different life. It has paved the way for me to experience things that others can only dream of. But to all of you readers who live in the Philippines, here's a secret: I would love to be there. Even for a time. Even for Christmas. To just have a good time and to throw all responsibilities away. To... relive what deserves to be relived. ......... And I'm angry that I can't just yet.

I really am not complaining. I'm just tired. I don't like having to follow the same schedule everyday, having to follow the same routine. You, my friends, you know me. I love spontaneity. I love having my life as the rollercoaster that it was. I miss the excitement of having a new relationship. I miss having to cry over one. I miss bad memories and being able to tackle them. I miss being loved and having friends around. I miss my friends. =(

I really, really, really love you guys. This may be the only time I've said it, but it's worth it more than anything.



 at 9:58 PM
Through difficulties
to the stars...
      These are the slips of the pen, tongue and memory of an abashed, slaphappy crackpot. Word for word and letter for letter, by stronger reasons, I breathe and hope and raise my glass to Love, and a better tomorrow.

So invigorate me. Please.



I am nobody but me.

I guess having lost my entire sidebar will not work for me, but it's no reason either to start anew. =)

I am Jik. I believe in miracles, and I believe in hope. I am not prude nor old-fashioned even though I  believe that Love is very real and that it governs the world. I am not selfish even though I may be materialistic. I am not weak even though I sometimes crumble down to my knees. I am not poor even though  I have very little in my bank account. I try to embody what courage is all about and I try to do everything in spontaneity. I invest a whole lot of passion in anything I do, and I am and always will be  a dreamer. I admire people who uphold their beliefs in life, as I try to do so myself. I always strive  for the perfection of character, and make myself into the person I want to become. I seek for the greater  scheme of things, the tapestry of how everything falls into an exquisite, sublime plan. And my greatest  fortune is having found the secret of my life. This I intend to share with all of you someday.

Makulit. Malikot. Mababaw. I'm thumbelina, sweetie, choknat, bitch,  bastard, bruhilda, gaga, bubwit, baby, hoebag, dumbass, jiffy, jikinini, jikydoodles, gicgic, jikulit, jikywiky, jikaru,  jikers, jikee, jikijik, jikjik, jik, jixie, jikita, jikita banana, jikitita, jikaboo, or what have you. I'm the Jik you know and ever will know.

            
My personal prayers
The Serenity Prayer

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference. Living one day at a time; Enjoying one moment at a time; Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace; Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it; Trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His Will; That I may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with Him Forever in the next. Amen.
--Reinhold Niebuhr

The Prayer

I pray you'll be our eyes
And watch us where we go
And help us to be wise
In times when we don't know
Let this be our prayer
As we go our way
Lead us to a place
Guide us with your Grace
To a place where we'll be safe
La luce che tu dai
(I pray we'll find your light)
Nel cuore restera
(And hold it in our hearts)
A ricordarci che
(When stars go out each night)
L'eterna stella sei
Nella mia preghiera
(Let this be our prayer)
Quanta fede c'e
(When shadows fill our day)
Lead us to a place
Guide us with your grace
  Give us faith so we'll be safe.
Sogniamo un mondo senza piu violenza
Un mondo di giustizia e di speranza
Ognuno dia la mano al suo vicino
Simbolo di pace e di fraternita
La forza che ci dai
(We ask that life be kind)
E'il desiderio che
(And watch us from above)
Ognuno trovi amore
(We hope each soul will find)
Intorno e dentro a se
(Another soul to love)
Let this be our prayer
Let this be our prayer
Just like every child
Just like every child
Needs to find a place,
Guide us with your grace
Give us faith so we'll be safe
E la fede che
Hai acceso in noi
Sento che ci salvera

         
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AAK
Dreaming Aloud
Time Space Warp
Making A Difference
A Stroller's Path
Friday I'm In Love
Pulot Pukyutan
Friends Choir
Bordercrapper
Taglish
Dagitab
Twisted Angel
The Midnight Run
Mish the Fish
Pigpen
Live.Life.Hello.Death.
A Drowning Fish's Bubbles
Electric Boogie
Suburban Wit
The Sensasianal
Hello, Lovine
Hear Me Laugh
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My Defining Moment:
Cassiel Matthias De Leon


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Reflections
Music

Heart Door
Paula Cole with Dolly Parton


There is a diamond inside of me that lights up the sky of my soul/ Where fell the diamond when I believed that all of the hurt was my fault/ I'm opening the heart door, letting in the light/ Opening the heart door and giving life to me that died/ You ended up so with that person who comes home too late from the bar/ I ended up so when my courage could finally walk on its own/ When I finally opened the door/ I'm opening the heart door, letting in the light/ Opening the heart door and giving life to me that died/ You ended up so with that person who comes home too late from the bar/ I ended up so when my courage could finally walk on its own/ When I finally opened the heart door

With or Without You
U2


See the stone set in your eyes/ See the thorn twist in your side/ I wait for you/ Sleight of hand and twist of fate/ On a bed of nails she makes me wait/ And I wait without you/ With or without you/ With or without you/ Through the storm we reach the shore/ You give it all but I want more/ And I'm waiting for you/ With or without you/ With or without you/ I can't live/ With or without you/ And you give yourself away/ And you give yourself away/ And you give/ And you give/ And you give yourself away/ My hands are tied/ My body bruised, she's got me with/ Nothing to win and/ Nothing left to lose/ And you give yourself away/ And you give yourself away/ And you give/ And you give/ And you give yourself away/ With or without you/ With or without you/ I can't live/ With or without you/ With or without you/ With or without you/ I can't live/ With or without you/ With or without you

Off The Hook
Barenaked Ladies


All around the room your things are placed/ And next to you he fills the space/ And so it seems your saving grace is only saving face/ The pictures of the two of you on holiday, on honeymoon/ You thought that he was wanting you,/ But he was only wanting you to/ Let him off the hook/ He was your imaginary friend,/ You were partners til the end/ Then something bends, and then it breaks, your worst mistake/ Accepting enemies on bended knees; a litany of tragedies,/ You're vexed, it seems you're hexed and after sex he expects/ You'll let him off the hook til/ Something that you heard while you were sleeping left you/ Shaken while he stirred. When you awaken you will/ Make him eat his words right off the hook/ Hook and line, every time/ The credit card receipts, the dirty sheets/ The souvenirs of men who cheat/ It all makes sense - with each offense/ You wanted to believe him/ He could get away with murder one,/ And you would clean the smoking gun/ With every crime, you bought each line,/ But not this time, you'll make him/ Eat his words cause/ Something that you heard while you were sleeping left you/ Shaken while he stirred/ When you awaken you will/ Make him eat his, make him eat his/ Words while he's alone,/ Cause you won't be around and/ From now on the phone stays off the hook/ Hook and line, everytime/ Hook and line, everytime

Wherever You Are
Celeste Prince


Time has come, what's done is done/ It's time to move on/ To another place, another space,/ maybe circling some other sun/ Don't ask why, don't ask how/ I still can't explain/ To say goodbye, goodbye for now til I see you again/ In the sunlight that's where I'll be/ In the moon night close your eyes, you will see me/ In the sunrise in the twilight/ I'll be the morning and the evening star/ I will be there with you wherever you are/ Life is strange, such joy and pain/ The betrayal and the kiss/ It maybe meant to be, maybe destiny/ Leads us down a path like this/ Child is born, true love is sworn/ All the in-between/ Well you walk on, walk on until the path is gone/ Learning love is the only everything/ So it's goodnight, things go wrong/ but it's alright/ We're all just passin' through here/ At the speed of light/ In the sunlight that's where I'll be/ In the moon night close your eyes, you will see me/ In the sunrise in the twilight/ I'll be the morning and the evening star/ I will be there with you wherever you are

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